Aries
Relationship - How a Ram would get along with others...
Aries is a fire sign, and fire has to do with
inspiration and imagination. Your aim is to bring these qualities
into life and act on them.
Now this may raise issues of aries relationship
compatibility with people whose horoscopes have different
emphases. You may meet opposition from people (maybe some
with the Sun in an earth sign like Taurus or Virgo) who are
frustrated, telling you that it is all very well to be fired
with imagination and act on new ideas, but what counts is
whether anything lasting results. Well, yes, they may have
a point.
Perhaps you get some project off the ground,
many people become dependent on the continuation of that project,
but then it collapses, for not sustained. Here is a challenge
to you to be true to yourself. If you get bored easily with
a project once it has been started, maybe you need to make
sure there are others around who are good at sustaining and
managing the practical necessities of your idea. Then no one
dependent on it will be let down.
If you have no inclination to work with practical
details, then maybe you could accept that as a personal quality
you do not have and leave it to others, while you act on your
next inspired idea! However, although you have the Sun in
Aries, there may have been a lot of planets in earth signs
(maybe Mercury in Taurus for instance) when you were born,
and this would indicate some more practical inclinations you
may want to pursue - although your main aim will always be
indicated by your Aries Sun and your Ascendant ruler.
Consider the sign immediately opposite the
zodiac circle, Libra. Represented by a pair of scales, Libra
is concerned with balance, harmony, and co-operation. These
are qualities you may need to learn in order to be effective,
but not at the expense of your overall aims in life. You have,
underlying everything, a strong personal will to move in life
and fulfil your aims.
Co-operation may be needed, but never allow
others to sit on you or hold you down, otherwise you will
be frustrated and unable to make the contribution to life
you were born to make. This could be difficult if the Moon
was in Libra when you were born, because this would indicate
that your instinctive desire is to live in perfect peace and
harmony with others - if you are at loggerheads with someone,
then you feel insecure. This is a side of your nature which
needs to be honoured, and it may take a lot of negotiation,
especially with one you love with whom compatibility is so
strongly desired, to have the peaceful co-existence you need
at the same time as pursuing your own interests.
The above is just a brief sketch of the sort
of qualities an aries relationship should be aiming for. If
you are experiencing difficulties on the way, the rest of
your birth chart will indicate where these difficulties are,
and a consultation would very likely provide clues as to how
to deal with them. All aspects of our nature, as represented
by the planets in signs and houses of our charts, need to
be honoured if the Sun is to effectively pursue its aims. |